Keeping your options open
Ladies and gents if ever you think finding a good person is not hard ask any single person who is genuinely wanting to be in a relationship how hard it is to find someone who they would class as a good catch, having said this the places in which to meet a person have become fewer over the years until there is there was the internet and telephone lines in which you could access more easily, so why are these two new methods still frowned upon? Why is it that a person can find someone when they were drunk at a bar, go home sleep with and then start a relationship over the initial physical attraction and that’s fine but getting to know someone via the net or phone is still not acceptable? The reasons I have been given were matters of trust, how do you know what your getting if you cant see a person and to that I say if two people are honest enough they will tell one another especially if they are being genuine, then the rebuttal comes along which goes something along the lines of ‘yes but in person you have to be honest about what you see’ and lets say for the record I totally disagree, ladies how many guys have said ‘it’s more then just sex babe’ but only calls and texts to let you know he is hard and horny and guys how many women have said ‘babe I swear he is just a friend’ and then you find her going at it in the bedroom? People only get to see what you want them to see, nothing more, so it’s all about honesty. So does it really matter how two people meet or spend their relationships so long as they are happy? How many more success net stories do you have to hear about before you can just say right I’m going to give it a go? So to all the couples out there who are having their long distance relationships or have met their partner or a good mate from the net or a phone service I hope that you stay happy. And for all those people who are still out at clubs and just waiting for the right person to come along next time your out on the dance floor look for the oldest people there who are regulars and tell me that there aren’t other ways to find someone?
posted by spicey pineapple @ 8:48 pm
8 Comments:
The question is "How much relationship do you really want?" Personally, I find a full time relationship really draining. I don't have half the time I want to do the things I want. Then there's all the emotional bullshit that comes along with the occasional sex. Is it worth it? I think a part time relationship is better. Leaves more time for other things and doesn't include the commitment of always having to fulfill that other person's expectations.
Fair point, although I don't think many people are of the opinion that finding a good mate is easy.
Sometimes we can't find a good mate because we're not so hot, either. I've done some self examination, meself.
Hrrmmm you do realise that if you do meet someone on the net, you do have to meet them in person eventually for it to be called a relationship, and people meet on the net then in person, and are dissapointed regulary.
If you ask me the net is just a swingers lounge, soooo many accounts on dating sites are fake ones made by the site, to string prople on and chat to them to get another months payment out of their customer.
yahoo chat has bots that just go round talking to people, so u might not be talking to a real person sometimes. the net if full of sick fuckwits.
So it makes you think why even bother, why pay to look at peoples profiles on RSVP, when i can go out (not just to clubs mind you ) and meet people in person, i dont think the internet should be ruled out as a place to meet people, but i can understand why there is so much skepticism. and it will contunue because the internet is so easliy corruptable.
hey bee
ur blog was really good and its so tru actualy. its opened my eyes a bit :)
love jenn xo
as always your blog has made me stop to think about something where there isnt just some simple and easy answer! so i will try to answer by stating the obvious...
A) everyone deserves to be happy... duh!
B) you can't find a soul mate around every corner... duh!
finding someone so special that you can exist with them day after day is so rare that its an artform and a HELL of a lot of luck.
C) some people ARE out to exploit others...duh!
not everyone in this world plays by the rules and will take advantage of you for money...or other more personal things
D) these people aren't restricted to a bar or the internet...duh!
they scaringly can be found everywhere... even in places you wouldnt expect, uni work...or even a friend
so keeping all of these "duh factors" in mind, people should be able to look for love wherever they feel comfortable, but they need to be sensible and keep their brains about them...cos there could be sharks waiting
harsh but true...
but no matter what bee, I LOVE YA!!
X ISI X
It is very hard, especially if like me you are no good at opening lines... I mean seriously, you can't get much worse than me... I don't even know what it is, i'm just hopeless at picking up women... Under 30... Don't ask.
I've got a profile online, but it's useless, no one talks to you unless your a paying customer... And i'm not willing to fork out $$$'s unless i know it's worth it.
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