Its not you.....wait no, it is you!
Do you know why so many people are single honestly, because they are not attractive or because they are overweight or because no matter how many times you hear 'looks are just a bonus'', it’s all a bunch of crap! You know why you see so many pretty girls with not so attractive guys cause women are less judgemental and we know (more so) what it is like to be judged on appearance alone. If you truly have a good sense of humour love to have fun and live life it is not enough for the larger majority of people you would like to date and as harsh and how fucked up this sounds its true, you know its true when you have been knocked back my a balding twenty two year old virgin (earlier this year) and someone who is older then you, is lonely and is shy as all hell. You know what really ticks me off though? Is that physical appearance can be altered, you can lose the weight you can get surgery all that stuff if you really want to, but you cannot change the way a person thinks and you know what makes me even angrier is that the people who are bastards who cant see past a physical exterior are the ones who end up with some one...I DONT FUCKING GET IT! So all the unattractive/overweight people who do decide to do something about their appearance and when you look great and you meet them think to yourself, would this person would have liked me before all the work? I'm not totally irrational I know that there always has to be some sort of physical attraction and that’s fine, but how shallow would you have to be to just look around and not say that person is cute or has a nice feature of some sort. I am a judgemental person but I will always give everyone a go because you can NEVER judge a book by its cover.P.S. see fatty told you I was right
posted by spicey pineapple @ 8:35 am
13 Comments:
I'm going to have to disagree; I think you see far more couples with the guy better looking than the girl. Guys have to make the moves most of the time, and often it is easier to have confidence approaching someone less attractive, and so we do it. That’s why you here gorgeous girls complain that guys are too intimidated to talk to them, it can be true.
Having said that you are right, you should never judge a book by its cover, but physical attraction is and always will be an important part of any connection, I think people just have to be more open to allowing people into their lives as friends too, and you know what, the more you like the person the more attractive they will become to you.
By the way don’t get disheartened because of a couple of rejections, maybe they didn’t think they were good enough for you, maybe they're just loners, maybe they have a crush on someone else they're holding out for, maybe there gay and haven’t come out, maybe there so shy they cant handle the thought of a girlfriend, there are tons of reasons why it may have happened, you should never automatically blame yourself.
The girl I like atm, when she 1st messaged me & i saw her photo i didnt think much of her :{ but we got to know each other well & now im crazy about her & she has become the most beautiful thing in the world to me!!
They do say love is blind :P i find that a good thing :}
boys are just too shit for their own good thats all.
thats all i can think of. but yeah. they are shit haha
You're single aren't you? This just doesn't add up! Then why are you single - you're gorgeous! ^_^ And why am I taken? O_O . & yes, Glenn being hot-as IS a bonus ^_^
bee my darling girl! i know exactly what you are saying! how many times have i gotten shit hung on me coz of the ppl i go out with? thats not to say that they're ugly but their not 'hot'. i was talking to a 15 yo guy tonight and he told me that he told a girl that he really likes that he would not go out with her because she was not hot n that by going out with her, he would ruin his 'cool guy' status. (not his exact words but u get the drift) if there are 15 year olds out there with this kind of mentality, wat hope is there? thank you for bringing up a topic like this...not many ppl have the guts to. i love u bee n always will...n will smack any fucker who has this attitude upside the head! just ask the 15 year old ;oP
Bee, I agree with what you said, but I've also seen your picture at the zoo and you've got nothing to complain about. You look great. Urkat
this is crap 90% of guys out there arent the dickheads you make us out to be. the steriotype image of models and guys liking girls with no morals that are heaps skinny is made up by other females, if you want to break down your female steriotype start with yourself and stop trying to make the rest of us feel bad, for something we dont believe in the first place! you wanna know what im sorry for?
im sorry that i dont like girls that look like their gunna snap if you hug them, im sorry i dont like the slutty girls that wanna grow up to be playboys, im sorry that i dont like the girl that constantly puts herself down and degrades herself!
im sorry that i want a girl that makes me laugh makes me smile and makes me feel special over a girl that only has big boobs and intelligence surpased by that of my cat!
im sorry that i dont want that girl who i cant trust because she has no morals and would put out for a scare crow if the wind made it move!
but most of all IM SORRY that YOU girls feel like you need to make all us guys feel like shit over a steriotype most common reinforced by womens magazines and bitchy-ass girls!
if your a guy or a girl that thinks this is true and wants to repost it go ahead,
if your a guy or a girl who has a problem with this... get over it
im totally hot and ive been single for only 7 years... go figure.
people can only see what we portray. if we show that all we are is that fat/ugly/balding/transexuall nazi eskimo....then thats all they will see.
It's funny - being in the industry I'm in, I've met a lot of women people would call 'stunners' and boy don't they know it! Their ego walks into the room five minutes before they do and they turn out to be high maintenance bitches with zero personality - the cookie cutter badly tanned airhead set you see so often in clubs that every hard up guy and his dog try to hit on and fail.
And while they're fun for a night, their lack of a personality and incessant whinging and bitching and demands get real old real quick.
Give me a real woman with her own life, personality, curves, killer smile and laugh and who I'd like to spend more than one hour with over a paris Hilton wannabe anyday. It's not just about the looks - there's gotta be so much more behind the mask for me to be interested.
Oh and the 22 year old balding guy is obviously an idiot.
my dearest usually i would agree with you....
but on this occasion i will have to disagree....
it is not the case with every person yes there are some shallow fuckes out there but not everybody is like that..
i see many unattractive people in relationships more than i see attractive people in relationships.....
example me lol.....i kid i kid......
but anyways seriously people no matter how much they say looks are important once they have found someone they click with the looks become nothing and they see them nothing more than a great person that they wish to spend all their time with....attractive or not
Yep, another disagreement....
I hang out in nightclubs on weekends, so i see an alarming amount of skinny blonde girls... yes they do have more guy's hit on them... But all of those guy's are the wankers in the clubs... And from my experience tend to also cheat alot.
I don't go for those stick girls at all, i find the lack of body shape quite sickening.
I used to get rejected all the time. Though now that i've lost a little weight, and cut my hair off. Girls are starting to notice me and try hit on me occasionally... It's kinda fun rejecting them.
There's one sure cure for loneliness--get married. Once you do, you'll find people will hit on you all the time. urkat
I don't support any stereotypes towards man or woman, I don't think we're all dickheads or women are airheads, I think everyone is a different person in their own regard and cant be classed into groups. To tell the truth i really don't know what I want in a woman besides one that will make me happy, whether it initially comes down to looks, personality or whatever, if in the end we come to be happy together thats all the really matters.
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