It all makes sense
Ladies and gents, I was having a discussion with a friend of mine today on how I find men who believe it is perfectly fine for two women to be sexual with one another and not two men, to be absolutely irritating. Until this day I thought it to be pure ignorance and stupidity, then some light was shone upon my own misguided ignorance. It was it explained to me like this; 'men find it arousing for two women to kiss because we are attracted to females and because they are doing something sexual. Not because it is two women because we are attracted to women. We don't find males attractive and we do not find their sexual activity with one another as a turn on.' I almost kicked myself when I realized that I had never thought about the issue from this perspective, it all makes sense to me now. I realize that this is not the case for every male or female for that matter but it does explain why so many intelligent and open minded males do not find two males kissing appropriate. To all those people who I believed to be ignorant I apologize, for all others who are still ignorant, grow up.
posted by spicey pineapple @ 10:34 pm
10 Comments:
Yeah, that's pretty much it.
Although you'd be surprised. My American friend really wants a FFM threesome but most of the guys she asks chicken out.
Sarcasm :-)
Yeah, I have never been that much into the woman-with-woman thing. Men are generally more visual than women. Most porn out there is for men to watch, whether it is man with woman, woman with woman, or man with man. I don't buy the explanation given though, because I think it IS because there are two women involved. It's a matter of the observing man imagining being in the middle of the women's sexual activity and receiving the women's attention, and, of course, not realizing that the women are doing just fine without a man in the middle. I'm not interested in watching two women because theirs is a different experience that's not about me.
From my understanding, sex for women is more about making love and the bonding experience: the personal intimacy created by being together. Kind of like, "look into my eyes and let me feel you inside me", sometimes in more ways than one. Watching any combination of people in sexual activity is not interesting to a woman because it's not a direct, personal experience.
Hmm, you had me up until "we, [women}, don't find males attractive..." That's a little hard to believe from my experience at least. I think I would have to agree more with brad.
Really, I just think men seek arousal more often than women. Perhaps it's the way we are (or maybe the way we believe we're supposed to be).
So a woman might get aroused around the man or woman she loves or feels an intamite attachment with.
But a man would be more likely to get aroused around anything that he's attracted to simply because men inherently seek this arousal, a lot, I believe.
I think this is what I meant to say?
he he very interesting blog...he he
hu hu ya their sexuality is a very inportant thingy....i am sry i havent been on much been waiting for a new comment u see....i was recently checking your page...to c any postes...but after a while i was thinking u wouldt replyt back...becasue of all the commenters u have...he he
but now i know u will he he
so he he this was a kool intersting story...
i might have to read it again because it had its difficult moments...he he!!!!!
dont be alarmed with my giddynes...he he i have been laughing all day...i saw a brilliant funny movie....
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blogger on!!!!!
Basically however, you will never really know the mind of a man! We are just too complicated... ha ha ha
You and me, we think alike.
Thanks for all the comments guys, you all make very good points and have different opinions its great! thanks again and to many of you happy writting. Kudos, Belinda
Oh god so wrong. Those ppl are ignorant. Being Bi i'm kinda in the middle of all that. Hey, I don't particularly enjoy watching guys kiss but i don't get grossed out by it, or think it's wrong. Of course the majority of ppl i know are ignorant, therefore they don't know anything about me. I have also been involved in a FFM threesome (i set it up because an old g/f wanted to try it).
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